A Closet Full of Clothes but Nothing to Wear: A Mom’s Wardrobe Struggle
I stand in front of my closet, staring at rows of t-shirts, sweaters and jeans. It’s packed – yet somehow, I feel like I have absolutely nothing to wear.
Sound familiar?
Before becoming a mom, I was a shopping enthusiast. I could spend an entire day strolling from store to store and still feel like there wasn’t enough time to shop. Now, every time I step into a store, I somehow end up in the kids’ section – because let’s be honest, everything is just too cute. I tell myself the kids need something new. I’ll shop for myself “next time.” But when that special occasion finally arrives, I find myself digging through my closet, wondering what happened to my style.
Here’s the truth: somewhere along the way, I got used to putting myself last.
But I’ve made a few promises to myself lately – and maybe you’ll want to borrow them, too:
- I will stop feeling guilty about buying something that’s just for me.
- I will finally replace those worn-out leggings with jeans that fit like a dream.
- I will invest in a few outfits that make me feel confident and powerful-not just “presentable.”
Because moms matter too.
We deserve to feel good in our clothes, not just functional. So, if you’re standing in front of a full closet thinking, I have nothing to wear, maybe it’s time to reclaim a little style for yourself.
Even one outfit that fits your body now and makes you feel like you again can make all the difference.
You’re showing up for your kids every day – don’t forget to show up for yourself too.
The Mom
Hi! I’m Nicole—a mom, lawyer, and writer. During daytime, I deal with the everyday legal challenges of the corporate world. In the evening, I change into mom mode and try to find some time to write about motherhood, work, relationships, and new adult fiction.
Welcome to my world!